Sunday, October 08, 2006
fer says ..
i know things haven't been going smoothly for yu guys.. i presume it's the stress and bad haze that's making all of us insane?
anyway jacq, i wanna clear some misunderstandings.. i am neither angry about this whole blog issue nor blaming anyone for all that has happened.
i decided to remove the tagboard because i dont see a point in leaving it there for people to spam. in the first place, the tagboard's meaningless because we dont have to tag, we simply blog. as for the tagging issue, yes i was furious initially.. but i guess it died down..
in any case, when i stop seeing those hate-tags, i start thinking that the 3 of us, we are the only readers of this blog and i feel better when i write my entries too. (:
between our everyday interaction, there's bound to be some misunderstandings or miscommunication.. dont take things to heart and do learn to accept things with an open mind.
sometimes, we speak harsh words without knowing it.. we only realise it after witnessing the reaction of the other party. but by then.. the words had already been put across. there's no way we can reform our sentences..
i speak to my mom rudely all the time.. sometimes even taking her for granted. only when i end the conversation with her, i realise how impolite my tone was. usually when that happens, i'm already out of the house or hung up already..
then came one day, i watched episode 07 of
My Name Is Kim Sam Soon. she was talking about her last conversation with her father at the airport and she regretted what she had said.. now, if she was given another chance, she would have told her father that the rice cakes are delicious, that she will come back healthy and to take care of himself.
so, whenever i'm about to say something horrid, i ask myself:
"what if this is the last time i am going to talk to her?"...
it kinda works and i'll always put things in a nicer manner afterwards. so, drama serials ain't bad afterall. (: this way, things wont end up bad and we wont regret that much right? haha..
it's been really long since we last met up and had fun.. i dont know when's the next time we can meet again.. i'll be kept busy once school starts. let's find a day to meet up before my semester starts aights?
(:
Threesome's company3:22 AM
